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Writer's pictureKirsten Dahlerup

If you feel guilty when you try to relax, this is for you.


Many of us struggle to slow down, pause, or even feel at ease with our own thoughts. Why? Often, it’s because unresolved childhood ‘wiring’ has conditioned our nervous system to stay on high alert.


This hypervigilance shows up in ways that might sound familiar:


• Constantly “doing” instead of allowing yourself to rest.


• Feeling guilty or uneasy when you try to relax.


• Overthinking what others think or feel about you.


• Using language like “I should,” “I must,” or “I ought to,” instead of “I choose to” or “I want to.”


The result? Chronic tension, black-and-white thinking, and decision-making driven by fear, not clarity.


Rewire Your Nervous System

Here’s the good news: You can break this cycle. Advanced Hypnotherapy is one of the most effective tools for addressing the subconscious patterns that keep us stuck. By working directly with your nervous system and subconscious mind, you can release the conditioning that’s holding you back and start creating a life that feels calmer, safer, and more intentional.


A Quick Practice for Right Now


You can begin shifting this pattern:

1. Pause. Take a break, even if it feels uncomfortable. Practice being comfortable being uncomfortable.


2. Notice. When your mind resists rest—when it tells you it’s “bad” or “lazy” to relax—simply observe those thoughts.


3. Breathe. Remind yourself: These thoughts and emotions are echoes from the past, not your current reality.


4. Reframe. Tell yourself, “Relaxing is necessary for my well-being. It’s how I recharge and show up as my best self.”


By allowing yourself pockets of rest, you teach your nervous system that it’s safe to feel safe. In this state of calm, you’ll find more creativity, clearer decision-making, and a stronger connection to your true self.


If this resonates and you’re ready to go deeper, then get in touch.


You are designed to be happy and content - because when you are your immune system is stronger💓


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